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Could You Still Be Happy Without Being In A Relationship?

By steambunz - Friday, June 26, 2020
"Are you happy?“ he asked.I gave him a query look."What do you mean am I happy? Of course I am!""No you're not," he rebutted."What do you mean I'm not?"He took a sip from his cup of I-don't-what's-the-name-of-the-alcohol and gave me a serious look."You were much happier before.""Oh? Was I?"I raised my eyebrow. "When?""When you were in a relationship." he paused. "You were much...

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Chapter 26.01 : How Awareness Helped Me in My Relationship

By steambunz - Saturday, March 30, 2019
The true test of self-awareness begins only when you’re in a relationship. I can honestly say this because in all dating occasions, we’ll be spending most of the time with our partner, either doing things together or having an intimate talk. With our senses (thoughts and physical contact) being focused on our partner, it’s hard to be engaged with our internal thoughts at...

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Chapter 24.01 : How My Relationship Had Change Me

By steambunz - Wednesday, March 08, 2017
Yeah, being in love is fun and all... while it actually lasts. There's no point being in love without acknowledging and observing the feelings that brings you to a through the journey of an roller coaster ride. At some point, there were feelings where I felt over the top of the world, but there were times where I also felt confused about the...

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If You Wanna Love, Love Them Whole

By steambunz - Tuesday, April 22, 2014
If you wanna do something, go all the way. Same goes with relationships, if you wanna love someone, love them all the way. You can't just love person-X half-heartedly, and go to person-Y telling them that you miss them. Love doesn't work like that. At least for me. My feelings and heart is not for you to play with. Is either you get...

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The Pain of Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back

By steambunz - Thursday, April 17, 2014
"But keep in mind one very important thing: If you love someone, then your one and only job is to make that person happy. If you don’t believe you can make him or her happy, then accept the fact that it will never work." -Paul Hudson from Elite Daily ...

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Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder

By steambunz - Thursday, April 17, 2014
"I miss you..." I said. There was a long pause, but he calmly answered,"Hmm... Why orh?" "I don't know," I broke down. "Of so many people, I have to miss you the most." * * * Remember back then in your car? It was that night.... ... that I missed your presence. I miss the look on your face when I gave you...

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Miss Independent in Relationships

By steambunz - Thursday, April 17, 2014
You know, I used to be so girly back then. Wearing short frenzy skirts and looking out for cute guys and all... Laughing and giggling like any normal girls do. But then it stopped. I don't know why. Guys outfits became my style back then, and true enough. I was a tomboy. And maybe because I got my heart trenched in so many...

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The Perfect Guy/Girl

By steambunz - Sunday, June 02, 2013
You know you've found the perfect guy/girl, when he/she is the only reason for your happiness and yet you can still can be yourself around him/her. ...

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The Missing Lady

By steambunz - Saturday, April 19, 2008
How does it feel when you miss someone? A lot of things... I guess? * * * She misses a lot of things about him, even though she knew he wasn't meant to be... * ... but knowing whether he misses her... ... is a story that she'll never know. But, somewhere in her heart, she secretly hopes... ... that he misses her...

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